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R&B star Ciara appears on the cover of the October issue of Vibe magazine—and what’s more, she’s naked, if strategically positioned! Naturally, this development has led Vibe to receive a whole lot of press, including a bit of controversy and maybe even a lawsuit. MTV reports that Ciara’s considering legal action against the magazine, claiming that the powers that be airbrushed underwear out of her shots; meanwhile, Vibe denies these claims and says that the photo shoot was actually Ciara’s idea. Either way, we don’t really see why it matters that much: the photo is about as revealing as Julianna Margulies’ recent “upskirt” shot. Maybe Ciara should save her energy for when that inevitable fake sex tape rumor comes along instead?

· “Ciara Poses Nude For Vibe” and “Ciara Was Nude In Photo Shoot, Vibe Editor Insists” (mtv.com)

Original post by Lux Alptraum

It seems like only yesterday that we learned about the lovely Peaches Geldof and her starring role in the latest Agent Provocateur campaign. And now we’ve managed to dig up the entire collection of photos (or tableaux vivants if you want to get fancy) …and a teaser video to boot! It’s all intended to promote Agent Provocateur’s latest “Season of the Witch” line, and this is one case where were we find such blatant marketing most effective. Let’s just say that the girls from Agent Provocateur have definitely put us under their spell. Photos and video after the jump.

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· Agent Provocateur (agentprovocateur.com)

Original post by Lux Alptraum

newVideoPlayer(”Dan_Savage_Sex_Column.flv”, 475, 376,”");We peruse a lot of newspaper and internet columns to compile our Best of Sex Advice feature, and whenever we do that there’s one question that always occurs to us but never gets answered by the experts—why are people so stupid when it comes to sex? Everyone wants to have fuck yet no one seems to know how to do it, and considering that they have to live in them for their entire lives, people know surprisingly little about their bodies. We figured if anyone could solve this riddle for us, it would be the gay godfather of sex advice Dan Savage. So in Part Two of our interview he tackles the biggest question of them all: Why are we all so dumb? The answers may surprise you. (Or maybe they won’t.)

· Savage Love (thestranger.com)

Previously: Dan Savage’s Porn Problem, Best of Sex Advice Archive

Original post by Dashiell Bennett

You can go elsewhere for inside peeks at how things work around the Fleshbot compound and mothership, but I’ll just say that in my three years working here I have only met one other Gawker Media personality who wasn’t already known to me. Such is the terrible loneliness required of being so goddamn scintillating, that gathering us in one room might vaporize the vicinity in white-hot fire.

Thus it was odd when I joined a party for little sister site Jezebel’s commenters in L.A. (I supplied the door prize porn). I had one thing on my mind: Find out why we’ve got, like, eight commenters on Fleshbot while all other Gawker Media blogs have thousands.

First, who would have thought to have a party for commenters? Well, delightful pixie Molly McAleer, girl videographer of Defamer, that’s who.

“So many people comment on the site that I thought I’d put together a Jezebel party,” she said. “Can you bring porn?”

“Yes,” I said, “but your commenters identify themselves to each other and aren’t content to just read the site?”

“No, they feel compelled to add their opinion and build community,” she didn’t actually say, but might have.

At the party, which was attended by about 20 Jezebel commenters of varied ages and genders, from students to married couples to a nascent epidemiologist to someone who said Dario Argento’s most recent film made her sad, I asked people - all Fleshbot readers, too - why they never commented on our compelling and turgidifying fare.

Here are the top three reasons:

· “I can’t look at cocks at work.”

· “I don’t want someone clicking my username on (apparently wholesome site) Defamer and tracing it to Fleshbot.”

· “What more can I say about dirtpipe milkshakes?”

So there you have it: repression, shame, and ignorance. We’re better than this, Fleshbot readers. For some reason, comments say as much about a site as Alexa ratings. So take your work laptop into the bathroom with you and look at cocks there, and comment on those cocks, and learn about all the wonderful places they go, and comment on that, too.

And then maybe Fleshbot commenters can get a party someday.

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Previously: Fleshbot Comments: Stalking Made Easy

Original post by Gram Ponante

Look, we’re not saying that we’re some kind of super studs who have conquered every bedroom scenario or even that we have all the answers when it comes to sexual adventure (even if it feels like we’ve watched it all on our computer screens.) But if there’s one thing we do know, it’s this—you people have no clue. Whether it’s your first time in the missionary, the first time getting pegged in the ass, or your first time using sexual blackmail to score a new living room set, it’s clear that most of you don’t have slightest idea of how to make it happen without hurting yourselves. But hey, we’re not here to judge, we’re here to help. So let the sex advice columnists of the world drop some knowledge on you, because goodness knows … you sure do need it.

· Sex Project (sex-project.com)

so i just started having sex a week or so ago, and i’m still trying to figure out the mechanics of it. maybe i’m just overly nervous, but i’m really wondering what the role of a woman in sex should be. if i’m on the bottom, what should i be doing? should i be thrusting, moving, or what? i don’t even know. also, i’m really not even sure what i should be doing on top. it seems like it should be self explanatory, but i’m having a little trouble figuring this all out. thanks.

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· OpenUp: The PuckerUp Forums (puckerup.com)

Girls, do you feel that if you let a guy have your ass you should have his as well with a strapon or a dildo (at least once), or is it ok if it just isn’t his thing?

Guys, do you feel obliged to let your girl have a go at your ass (at least once) if she lets you have hers?

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· Dategirl (seattleweekly.com)

my boyfriend and I have a very satisfying sex life. However, I want to throw him a curveball he won’t forget anytime soon. I’m just not sure how.

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· Miss Information (nerve.com)

I’m not very sexually experienced. I’ve only slept with one person … He bought me a vibrator right before we broke up … This is going to sound stupid, but I can’t figure out how to get it in and make it stay there. Every time I try, my pussy just kind of pushes it out. What the fuck? Am I too loose?

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· Savage Love (thestranger.com)

You’ve talked about guys masturbating with too firm a grip and doing damage. I’m 21, male, in good shape, and have been jerking off with a death grip since I was 10. Lately my cock has been failing me. I have trouble staying hard, especially when wearing a condom. I’ve heard that the death grip can decrease sensitivity and make it harder to come, but can it lead to impotence? Is this physical or am I just psyching myself out?

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· Dr. Joyce Brothers (seattlepi.nwsource.com)

My girlfriend’s trying to get her husband to buy a new couch and chair for their living room, and he’s complaining about the price … We haven’t gone into details, but I gather he likes certain sex things, she doesn’t, but if she gives it to him she’ll get her couch, and she knows it. Is this right?

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· Love Bites (eyeweekly.com)

I would like to find a job in my field at a company that is geared toward my personal interests: sexuality and BDSM. I have a hard time finding work because normally sex-related companies are small-scale and don’t need someone for things such as quality control, forecasting, logistics, project management and analyzing. I’m wondering if you can suggest some positions (not the sexual kind!) in the sex industry that might suit me.

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· Jersey Girls (providencedailydose.com)

Why is it that some girls with wretched smelling vaginas refuse to acknowledge the fact that they have wretched smelling vaginas? I mean, they have to know unless they are totally smell-deaf to it.

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· Get Naked (timeout.com)

Whenever I’m driving alone on a highway (which lately has been a lot, because my girlfriend lives out of state), I always end up with a huge hard-on, and then I can’t resist the urge to whip it out and just let it hang out there … Most of the time, no one notices, but when it does get someone’s attention it’s inevitably a male truck driver, and when that happens I get so aroused that I have to pull over and jack off. So there you go. What’s up with that?

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· Bonus Video Queston! The Condom Wrapper : Dear Prudence (slate.com)

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Previously: Best of Sex Advice Archive

Original post by FLESHBOT