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Sasha Grey is a very pretty girl…with a very filthy mouth. We’ve often wondered where her dirty thoughts come from—and, um, if she’d be able to give us a few pointers.

As luck would have it, Sasha was more than willing to sit down with us and offer some insight on what motivates her to say such filthy things—and what civilians like us should know before calling a partner a filthy, worthless gutterwhore. Click through the gallery to see what Sasha had to say (and to hear some examples of her mouth at work).

[At left: Image of Sasha Grey courtesy of New Sensations (nsgalleries.com)]

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Fleshbot: Have you always been into dirty talk, or is it something you developed an interest in as you became sexually experienced?
Sasha Grey: I’d say within the first year I started having sex, I started to enjoy the psychological play that goes with “dirty talk.”

Did you have to work to get good at talking dirty, or is it more something that came naturally?
No, I think you just have to be shameless; that’s half of the fulfillment for me.

For you, personally, what’s the main appeal of dirty talk?
It’s definitely the psychological war between you and your partner that I enjoy the most. It turns me on and gets my adrenaline rushing.

[At left: Video clip from Adam & Eve’s “The Five” (gamelink.com)]

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Are you very vocal in your off set sex life as well, or is it more something you do for the camera?
Yes, very!

Do you ever plan out things to say ahead of time, or is it mostly spur of the moment?
In the past I have on camera. I’ve prepared things to say based on who I am working with and who the director is…it builds up the anticipation and excitement.

Any tips for people looking to try dirty talk at home?
If you and/or your partner feel intimidated, talk about it before hand. The great part about dirty talk is expressing improvised fantasies: you can talk about kinky things you may never do, or call your partner some very cruel things. But it’s vital to establish that it’s only fantasy, and you don’t think your husband or boyfriend is a come guzzling fag….oh did I say too much?!

[At left: Video clip from Digital Playground’s “Jack’s Teen America #22″ (digitalplayground.com)]

Original post by Lux Alptraum

Kelly Hall may not have any advanced degrees in sexology—but she is a hot babe with a killer rack, and for the purposes of this exercise, that’s more than enough to qualify her as a sexpert.

So how does one bed Kelly Hall (or a girl of her caliber)? Well, we don’t want to steal Kelly’s thunder or anything, so it’s best if you click through to Zoo’s website to see for yourself (but don’t worry: there’s plenty more pictures—and a behind-the-scenes video—to reward your journey).

· Kelly Hall’s Sex Tips & Strip! (zootoday.com)

Original post by Lux Alptraum

With cameras in everything from your computer to your phone to your microwave (some day!), it’s easier than ever to shoot your own porn. But you don’t want to shoot just any porn. You want to make a good one.

Granted, making a “Fly Girls” (or even a “Fuck a Fan”) is no easy feat—that’s part of why people make money as professional pornographers. Nevertheless, with a few helpful tips and tricks, you should be able to make a porn that you and your partner (or even the world) can enjoy—and even have a bit of fun in the process, too.

What Gets You Hot? If you want to get the most out of your amateur pornstardom, you have to decide what, exactly, you’re hoping to get out of your amateur pornstardom. A few things to consider:

Do you care more about the process or the project? For some people, the mere act of having a camera on during sex gets them off—whatever the camera happens to record is completely secondary to the thrill of being recorded. If you happen to be a member of that group, you don’t really need our advice: just set up a camera, and enjoy your naughty little thrill. (If, on the other hand, you actually care about what gets recorded…read on, MacDuff.)

What kind of porn do you already enjoy? Looking for inspiration? Think a bit about the kind of porn you currently enjoy—and don’t be afraid to take a few pointers from the masters. If straight up gonzo sex is what turns your crank, then cut to the chase and just shoot the sexing. Do you like the conversational context of docuporns? Throw in some before and after chit chat to amp up the intimacy. Only interested in features? Well, you probably won’t be able to shoot “Pirates” from the comfort of your bedroom…but you can always throw in a little role playing to mix it up a bit.

What makes you feel sexy? We’re making a porn here, people; and the hotter you feel, the better your porn will be. Is there a specific set of underwear that makes you feel ultrahot? A position that really gets you going? Make sure to include it in the action—you’ll be glad you did.

Making the Porn. Once you’ve decided what you want to shoot, there’s still the matter of actually shooting it. Some tips and tricks:

A little extra light goes a long way. Doing it in the dark may feel oh so sexy—but if you want the camera to love you, the camera needs to be able to see you, baby. Overhead lighting will definitely do, but the better a set up you can manage, the better your porn will look.

Don’t be afraid to get intimate. The steady shot is a popular choice with amateur pornographers…mostly because it’s easy. But easy filming doesn’t always make for great porn. Some of our favorite amateur endeavors are shot POV-style, with handheld camera work that actually gets into the action. Hey, if you can’t have a camera crew taping you fuck, it’s the next best way to create a product that captures the excitement and intimacy of fucking.

Seriously, don’t be afraid to get intimate. It’s hard not to get performance anxiety when there’s a camera taping your every (naked) move, but the more you can relax and be yourself, the better your video will be. Amateur porn is about capturing those wonderful, intimate moments between yourself and your partner—if you’re trying too hard to impress the camera, you may miss the very thing you wanted to record.

But most of all: have fun. If you feel stressed out, or uncertain, or weird about anything, then just stop. Making your own porn is supposed to heighten the eroticism of the occasion—if you feel like it’s taking away from the experience, then put away the camera, and just focus on the sex.

Enjoy (and share?) Congratulations, you’ve made your first porn. Now comes the fun part: watching it!

Watching alone. Even though you made this movie together, it might be one that you want to watch apart. Some people have a hard time watching themselves on camera—if one partner is more into the movie than the other is, it could create an uncomfortable vibe. Also: if you watch your home porno alone, it’s like you’re fucking your partner when the two of you aren’t even in the same room. Amazing!

Watching together. On the other hand, watching yourselves doing each other can also be an incredibly intimate, exciting experience. And if you fuck each other while watching yourselves fuck? That’s like, 100 million baller points right there.

Watching with the world. Considering uploading your erotic creation to your favorite porn sharing site? Before you do, take a moment to consider the following question.

You wake up one morning, surf over to the Fleshbot…and discover that your super sexy shenanigans are featured as the latest Flesh Flick. Do you:

a) feel outraged, violated, and upset
b) feel excited, flattered, and a little (or a lot) turned on

Answered a? Best to keep your private business private. If, on the other hand, you went with b; well, happy uploading (and we’ll see you on the tubes!).

· Thumbnail via Share Adult (shareadult.com)

Original post by Lux Alptraum

Pornstars make a living by being very, very good at sex. And while some of their talents just come naturally, many still have some tips and tricks that they can pass on to civilians…civilians like us!

As part of our mission to make the world a better place (and your bedroom a hotter one), we’ve reached out to some of our favorite stars to get a few of their sex tips. This week, Joanna Angel sounds off on getting it up the backside…and, as an added bonus, she sent us a little gallery of, ahem, inspirational photos.

[At left: Joanna and a dildo, courtesy of Burning Angel]

When was the first time you had anal sex?
I was 22 when I first had anal sex—and I lost my virginity when I was 18… so I was sexually active for a while before I tried it!

Was it something you’d wanted to try for a while, or was it suggested by a partner?
It was definitely something I wanted to try for a while and I suggested it to my partner. He was way more nervous than I was!

[At left: Joanna and James Deen, courtesy of Burning Angel]

How was your first time? What kind of prep did you do to get ready for it?
I honestly did no prep for it my first time… me and my partner at the time were having sex and I was just like, “Put it in my ass!” And fortunately it all worked out. I have heard of many stories where people’s first time having anal sex was spur of the moment like that as well and it wasn’t quite as um…. clean. I think your body kinda knows when it’s cool to have impromptu anal sex and when it’s not. If your hormones are saying yes and your stomach is saying no—well, don’t ignore the stomach!

[At left: Joanna, courtesy of Burning Angel]

Did you have to consciously work at your anal performance, or was it just something that came naturally?
it really just came naturally to me. It’s something I love to do…I never had to pretend it felt good, it really always felt good. Something I really love about anal sex is that I feel like every time I am having it for the first time. I don’t know if this is like TMI but—my pussy has sort of um… expanded over the years. My ass is still really tight, so I don’t really know if there is a way to get “better” at anal sex the way you can get better at vaginal sex.

[At left: Joanna in “XOXO Joanna Angel,” courtesy of Burning Angel]

These days, how do you prepare for an anal scene?
I try not to go overboard with the anal prep—I eat light food (I certainly don’t starve myself but I don’t eat huge meals either), nothing dairy or spicy. I try not to drink coffee, I do a few enemas with warm water and I’m usually good to go. You just have to listen to your body—the rules that apply to me can’t apply to everyone else. Everyone’s body is different.

[At left: Joanna, courtesy of Burning Angel]

Any tips for civilians looking to include anal play in the sex life?
Go slow at first. Use lots of spit or a lube that you like, don’t do it right after you eat Taco Bell, and just have a good time. The goal is to get turned on, not to prove to your spouse that you can perform in some kind of circus act.

[At left: Joanna and Sean Michaels in “LA Pink,” courtesy of Burning Angel]

Original post by Lux Alptraum